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Daddy, Can I Kill This? “Imagine that your child walks up when your back is turned and asks, ‘Daddy, can I kill this? What is the first thing you must find out before you can answer him? You can never answer the question “Can I kill this?” unless you’ve answered a prior question: What is it?” The answer to the question “What is the unborn?” trumps all other considerations. It is key to answering virtually every objection to the pro-life view. The following dialogue illustrates why there is only one issue to resolve, not many: Abortion Advocate: Abortion
is a private choice between a woman and her doctor. Pro-Lifer: Do we allow parents to
mistreat their children if done in private? Abortion advocate: Of course not.
Those children are human beings. Pro-Lifer: Then the issue isn’t
privacy. It’s “What is the unborn?” Abortion Advocate: But many poor
women cannot afford to raise another child. Pro-Lifer: When human beings get
expensive, may we kill them? Abortion Advocate: Well, no, but
aborting a fetus is not the same as killing a person. Pro-Lifer: So, once again, the issue
is “What is the unborn? Is the fetus a human person?” Abortion Advocate: But you’re
being too simplistic. This is a very complex issue involving women who must make
agonizing decisions. Pro-Lifer: The decision may be psychologically
complex for the mother, but morally it
is not complex at all. When blacks are mistreated in a certain society; do we
spin a tale about complex, agonizing decisions for the whites in power or do
we condemn the evil of racism? Abortion Advocate: Aborting a fetus
that is not a person is one thing, discriminating against black persons is quite
another. Pro-Lifer: So we’re agreed: If
abortion kills a defenseless human being, then the issue wouldn’t be complex
at all. The question is, “What is the unborn?” Abortion Advocate: Enough with your
abstract philosophy. Let’s talk about real life. Do you really think a woman
should be forced to bring an unwanted child into the world? Pro-Lifer: The homeless are
unwanted, may we kill them? Abortion Advocate: But it’s not
the same. Pro-Lifer: That’s the issue,
isn’t it? Are they the same? If the unborn are human like the homeless, then
we can’t kill them to get them out of the way. We’re back to my first
question, “What is the unborn?” Abortion Advocate: But you still
shouldn’t force your morality on women. Pro-Lifer: You don’t really
believe what you just said. You’d feel very comfortable forcing your morality
on a mother who was physically abusing her two-year-old, wouldn’t you? Abortion Advocate: But the two cases
are not the same. Pro-Lifer: Oh? Why is that? Abortion Advocate: Because you’re
assuming the unborn are human, like the two-year-old. Pro-Lifer: And you’re
assuming they’re not. So the issue is quite simple, isn’t it? It’s not
forcing morality; it’s not privacy;
it’s not economic hardship; it’s not
unwantedness; it’s “What is the
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